Being a part of the PitchWars mentor community over the last several weeks has been an amazing experience. Not only is it great to connect with so many dedicated and intelligent writers, but it’s moving to see these same people fiercely committed to helping a writer find success in the publishing world.
As I’ve scrolled through the PitchWars tag, I’ve watched hopeful mentees participate in the games, look for critique partners, yet also share their uncertainty about their work. What I think is incredible is the number of other hopefuls who join in and try to lift others up. This is what is important about the PitchWars community. It’s not battling against one another for the attention of a mentor, but supporting each other through the process.
Writing can be a very lonely business. Unless you’re getting together regularly with a group, most of us spend hours alone in a room trying to create some brilliant world. There’s no cheering section for when you get through a saggy middle, or a round of applause when you type “The End.” It’s just you, hoping and praying that what’s on the page will make it into readers’ hands one day.
To this point, I want to say that being in any contest can be both a happy and sad experience. Happy because you’re connecting with other writers, yet sad because your manuscript may not get chosen. Not getting chosen is not a reason to stop writing. PitchWars is one contest in a myriad of contests available during the year. It’s easy to get down on yourself, to want to give up, but I beg you not to let your story go. Take some time. Lick your wounds. And then, get right back to it.
Many of us mentors were in contests and we’re NEVER picked. Many of us spent years in the query trenches. Many of us found our agent through the slush pile. There are many paths to publishing. The only way you will NOT be successful is if you STOP WRITING.
So if you’re a potential mentee, or considering participating in a contest in the future, don’t let an unfavorable outcome be a roadblock for you. Use it as a mere stepping stone along your path. Use it to meet other writers. Improve your craft. Once you’re ready, get back to your computer, settle in, and go back to work. It is those who keep trying who eventually reach their dream.